Delayed Gratification

Hey guys, we're on a big topic today. This is going to change your life forever. How about that as a promise...=)

Today we're talking about delaying gratification. Most people heard the term but how many of us have really understand it deeply...

Let me share a story before we start the journey....

What happens when delayed Gratification goes wrong!

A 500 pound lady that tries to loss weight, went for a jog in the park. She jog and she jog until she sweats her shirts and her pants. 

Went home and tell her bacon and cheese, she ain't having it today. In her lunch time she had veges instead of meat and dinner she ate a little oatmeal and some bread. 

And as soon as she finished her routine she says, its time for reward, she talks to her ice-cream how tough her journey today and writes her diary with a bag of potato chips on her couch in front of her TV.  

Here's a brief understanding on Delayed Gratification

Delayed Gratification A.K.A Deferred or Postpone Gratification.

Our Ability to resist the temptation for an immediate reward.

Delayed gratification is art that all successful leader don't really talk about these days anymore,

I'm not sure about why is this topic not really emphasize but when i go to the book store to get a book of the topic they found me a book on delayed ejaculation?..hahaxD

That's why I've decided to teach it here.

I believes the reason why delayed gratification has not been emphasize in these days is because people find strategy learning to success more important that psychology needed to success but kept in mind that strategies may advance your career but it is always our psychology that gonna bring us through the journey. 

Lets skip all the chatting here and let me introduce you to 5 simple ideas to help you master the Art of Delayed Gratification now

Here's 5 ideas to help you Master Delayed Gratification;

It Requires a Long-term Goal.

Guess what they 500 pounds lady ended up. She'll kept repeating the same rut until she learns the lesson and sees whats wrong or worst she may never get out of the rut. 

In our journey to success, mastering this art allows us to take a leap instead of climbing the stair like most people that struggles. When we have a long-term goal we are more conscious of what are the desserts and which are the main course in the journey.

Doesn't Mean "HARD" all the time.

Seeing everything as a difficulty is only bad management of our mind. How hard is it to eat healthy when a bowl oatmeal cost you less than bacon and cheese. Easier to prepare and cleans up excessive waste in our body. 

The fact is we all didn't see that "It feels harder right after we receive our immediate reward". Ask anyone on the journey, and even yourself how many times have you not feel guilty after you accept the little reward and given on all your major goals.

 How many prayers do we have to submit from feeling tempted by devils trap in through out the journey. It all leads to whether have we practice the art of Delayed Gratification.

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Don't Get Overwhelmed  ! 

STRESSED = DESSERTS, never lets it catch ya. Most people give up when things getting to all stressed up. When the result comes slow or the missed a series of episode of this and that on TV or hit down by a rejection. Save up appetite for the main course. 

Kept in mind that, God designed it to be like this so that we are prepared for the great things he sets in for us. Just like the lottery winners always lost all the money.

Everyone gets overwhelmed when they starts up the journey don't be surprise. Learn how to manage it instead. Don't be like the lady with the ice-cream. Be like the lady that you dreamed of.

Recommended reading: Anxiety Management in the Journey of Success.

Make Everything Simple

I'm not telling you to do simply do it. The best way to master the art of delayed gratification is to achieve your dreams task by task, Just like your on your road 600 KM to reach.

How are you going to arrange it? You stops every 100-200 KM. Don't take it at once, You will die. Even if you made it your car will die. HAHA..XD..funny but no joke... 

Most mediocre do the same thing so that they looked productive actually they are not. They try to learn and do everything at the same time and they end achieve nothing at all. Successful people only do very few task yet they manage to master everything in their journey.

Expect Much More Than What You Pay

Delayed Gratification also means expect much more than what you pay. Do not let yourself to fall for the little goodies until you receive what you deserve for in the journey. 

Ask yourself how many times have you regrets after you realize why you didn't strive hard in the past when you should have. Successful people are very good at seeing what their effort pays when mediocre will just settle when they get a hold or even lesser on the effort they pay. 

This is depressing because if you worth a million and settle down for 500 K you'll ended up losing the 500 K you deserve. And the worst part they falls into the pit of comfort zone and did not re-bounce until they spent every single penny.

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To END the story here, delayed gratification is an art that every successful entrepreneur ..
Take it as a challenge to master it today..

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How to have Exponential Growth in your Life

Hi guys today we’ll be talking about how to have exponential growth in life. And this is actually one of my favorite topic of all because I took this topic as my life agenda to be alive and fulfilled. And I know in this post most people are going to feel offended about it because it’s gonna be an insult for boredom, distraction and mediocrity. 

So here’s 5 areas of life that we need to focus on that’s going to bring exponential growth in life. So lets roll…

#1     Focus on your life’s work.
The first step to exponential growth in life is we need to focus on our life’s work. And its not necessary your job. But if your job is the one thing that you’ll be happy with it for the next 30 years then go ahead but if its not then maybe it’s time for you to focus on getting know what career would you like to do for the next 30 years even the rest of your life that’s going to bring you fulfillment. If you’re not sure then maybe it’s time for you to make a change in your life and ask yourself the magic question.”If I were to be in any career or job what would it be” and trust me in this century whatever you do can make an income. 

#2     Focus on your relationship with your family
Love is one of the most power force of all and we get most of them from the ones we loved and love us mostly our spouse and family.. How long since have you stop and took a gaze your spouse or even make a phone call to your old mom and pops? And how long have you not seen the curios smiles of your kids? After being a husband of a wonderful lady I've seen many divorces and boredom in marriage and even I myself was nearly involve. Why and how could it happen? Here’s a piece of coaching, the reason is very simple. Nobody was focusing on their relationship with their spouse and family. And worse part is they expect the other half to do it.
 If you can’t recall them maybe it’s time for you to think about that. As life goes many of us are too busy with our life and we forgot about the most important peoples in our life, our family.
That’s why decide today to make effort on building a relationship with your family. Takes even 15 min a week to make a call to your parents or even a few minute a day to text your wife trust me its gonna make a difference in your life.

#3     Focus on your life stream
My favorite of all time, our life stream. Maybe it sounds a bit psyche to you but it is the essence of our life according to yogic experts. A.K.A you can't have exponential growth without the energy to sustain in the long run. And I believe it is our responsibility to live the full out of our life. Think of all the great things would you could see with a healthier and longer life. Start on today decides to take good care of you and make a difference out of it. If your overweight lose some fat, if you’re dying then decide to live even you’ll only make it a day longer so that you could bring one more loving memory for your love ones.

#4     Focus on your believe
“What are your believes my friends?” Believe is our everyday shield and weapon against doubt without it we cant take our step upon the exponential growth every successful people crave for. One of the greatest question of all time when I was coaching with my sales team in my pass company. Have you ever thought of that? Do you believe in what your doing will bring you a bright future today. Life is short and most of us fall without believes or even blindly follows what falls upon us which leads us to infinity of doubt in our lives. If you cherish your life, decide today to work upon your believe on what you’re doing do not let doubt took away your opportunity in your life to do something great out of it..

#5     Focus on being Passionate
Last piece of advice, “what are your passions in life?” What are you passionate about? Research has shown that 80% of the people in the industry have little or no passion at all in their career and they did not learn or restudy their career after 1-2 years of the job. How long have you not been having those deep passionate desires that burns deeply in your heart and wakes you up every morning even without an alarm clock even you just slept 2 hours a day. I still remember when I was in sales I slept less than 2 hours a day but after I left the company I slept 10 hours a day but yet I was still tired and filled with anxiety(which sleeping doesn’t heal). The reason is simply without a passion to live by. Decide today to get back your passion in your career if this is ain’t the career you desire and passionate for then perhaps it’s time for you to change your career.

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