Delayed Gratification

Hey guys, we're on a big topic today. This is going to change your life forever. How about that as a promise...=)

Today we're talking about delaying gratification. Most people heard the term but how many of us have really understand it deeply...

Let me share a story before we start the journey....

What happens when delayed Gratification goes wrong!

A 500 pound lady that tries to loss weight, went for a jog in the park. She jog and she jog until she sweats her shirts and her pants. 

Went home and tell her bacon and cheese, she ain't having it today. In her lunch time she had veges instead of meat and dinner she ate a little oatmeal and some bread. 

And as soon as she finished her routine she says, its time for reward, she talks to her ice-cream how tough her journey today and writes her diary with a bag of potato chips on her couch in front of her TV.  

Here's a brief understanding on Delayed Gratification

Delayed Gratification A.K.A Deferred or Postpone Gratification.

Our Ability to resist the temptation for an immediate reward.

Delayed gratification is art that all successful leader don't really talk about these days anymore,

I'm not sure about why is this topic not really emphasize but when i go to the book store to get a book of the topic they found me a book on delayed ejaculation?..hahaxD

That's why I've decided to teach it here.

I believes the reason why delayed gratification has not been emphasize in these days is because people find strategy learning to success more important that psychology needed to success but kept in mind that strategies may advance your career but it is always our psychology that gonna bring us through the journey. 

Lets skip all the chatting here and let me introduce you to 5 simple ideas to help you master the Art of Delayed Gratification now

Here's 5 ideas to help you Master Delayed Gratification;

It Requires a Long-term Goal.

Guess what they 500 pounds lady ended up. She'll kept repeating the same rut until she learns the lesson and sees whats wrong or worst she may never get out of the rut. 

In our journey to success, mastering this art allows us to take a leap instead of climbing the stair like most people that struggles. When we have a long-term goal we are more conscious of what are the desserts and which are the main course in the journey.

Doesn't Mean "HARD" all the time.

Seeing everything as a difficulty is only bad management of our mind. How hard is it to eat healthy when a bowl oatmeal cost you less than bacon and cheese. Easier to prepare and cleans up excessive waste in our body. 

The fact is we all didn't see that "It feels harder right after we receive our immediate reward". Ask anyone on the journey, and even yourself how many times have you not feel guilty after you accept the little reward and given on all your major goals.

 How many prayers do we have to submit from feeling tempted by devils trap in through out the journey. It all leads to whether have we practice the art of Delayed Gratification.

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Don't Get Overwhelmed  ! 

STRESSED = DESSERTS, never lets it catch ya. Most people give up when things getting to all stressed up. When the result comes slow or the missed a series of episode of this and that on TV or hit down by a rejection. Save up appetite for the main course. 

Kept in mind that, God designed it to be like this so that we are prepared for the great things he sets in for us. Just like the lottery winners always lost all the money.

Everyone gets overwhelmed when they starts up the journey don't be surprise. Learn how to manage it instead. Don't be like the lady with the ice-cream. Be like the lady that you dreamed of.

Recommended reading: Anxiety Management in the Journey of Success.

Make Everything Simple

I'm not telling you to do simply do it. The best way to master the art of delayed gratification is to achieve your dreams task by task, Just like your on your road 600 KM to reach.

How are you going to arrange it? You stops every 100-200 KM. Don't take it at once, You will die. Even if you made it your car will die. HAHA..XD..funny but no joke... 

Most mediocre do the same thing so that they looked productive actually they are not. They try to learn and do everything at the same time and they end achieve nothing at all. Successful people only do very few task yet they manage to master everything in their journey.

Expect Much More Than What You Pay

Delayed Gratification also means expect much more than what you pay. Do not let yourself to fall for the little goodies until you receive what you deserve for in the journey. 

Ask yourself how many times have you regrets after you realize why you didn't strive hard in the past when you should have. Successful people are very good at seeing what their effort pays when mediocre will just settle when they get a hold or even lesser on the effort they pay. 

This is depressing because if you worth a million and settle down for 500 K you'll ended up losing the 500 K you deserve. And the worst part they falls into the pit of comfort zone and did not re-bounce until they spent every single penny.

Recommended : Its Time for a Breakthrough

To END the story here, delayed gratification is an art that every successful entrepreneur ..
Take it as a challenge to master it today..

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Anxiety Management in the Journey of Success

Hey, guys hope you enjoy my last post. It has just break a new view record of mine...
Today I'm going to share on a topic that's more exciting.

Something that makes your butt heavy and sticky in the morning. The worries that we felt when we don't receive or pay check.

The nervous that haunts us down before facing our client and Uneasiness we had for not being able to achieve our goals. Anxiety! (HAHA..May sound Awkward but that's the truth.)

What is Anxiety?

Most people thinks or believes that anxiety is nothing but feeling tired but its actually not. Feeling tired is only what you get from anxiety. Anxiety is actually the feeling of uneasiness, worry and nervous of not being able to reach their goals yet.

Why do we need to manage our Anxiety?

One of the greatest threat in the journey to extraordinary is when we do not have enough energy to sustain your journey. In our journey to success no matter you are or what career you're in we all need energy in order for us to become enthusiastic and excited most of the time.

High level of energy not only allows us to sustain ourselves to explore in the unknown regions of our career it allows us to influence others to work with us through out the journey as well.

Destruction of Anxiety

Too bad that, a lot people happens to quit when they are hit by anxiety. Realize they can't pull strength to sustain their dreams leaving the game with buried regrets.

Imagine how many great dreams pop off like light bulbs every single second everyday day on earth just because people fail to pull up their strength to succeed in their journey.

How many great people that could make this world a better place to live by have we lose just because of anxiety. Great dreams just seems to be starting on an extinction. Someone must have an idea better than the iPhone we use these day. The car we drive.Or we might even move to another planet earlier.

How-to Manage our Anxiety

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1. Have a Long-term goal
   
   While having a short-term goal will only give us more unease when we are not able to reach on time. Have a long-term goal that allows us to have the time we want to prepare ourselves for it. Kept in mind that it is not what we receive from achieving the goal but we become from achieving the goal.
2. Change the Quality of your food
   People these day have terrible quality of life. They woke up with a rush and feed themselves all the oily food and even fast food that are filled with chemical and cancerous substance. If you want to be successful change the quality of your life! Keep yourself away from all the harmful substances that destroys your organs. Eat organic.
3. Join a Healthy circle
   Nothing gives you more anxiety that listening to all those complains and worries from those mediocre. Change your circle today, look for people who encourage you to succeed instead of telling you to play safe.
4. List of Gratitude
   
   Number one powerful tool of successful people. Show gratitude! Nothing gives you more energy than expressing your gratitude on  things that happens in your life. Good or bad, it doesn't matter at all. If all things we're good what are there for us to learn. Have a list that you are thankful of.
5. Meditation
   
   Yogic activity is one of the greatest way to clear up your mind today! Put yourself in a peaceful state for at least 12-20 minutes a day. Meditation allow your brain to control your thoughts and impulses which allow more ideas to flow into your mind. Go for yoga classes or you might even learn it from YouTube these days thank to the internet.
6. Exercise
   
   My favorite of all time! Exercise! Make it the first thing to do right after you open your eyes in the morning. What I actually do is do 50 push ups ,jumping jacks, sit ups and squats right after i get up from bed. The heartbeat always gives me an instant smile in the morning instead of the zombie look most people has these days in the office.

Also read: Its time for a Breakthrough 
                 5 Habits that Wreak Your Day and or even your Life

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8 Extraordinary things that Happened to Extraordinary People

Hey guys, today we'll be discussing on extraordinary things that most ordinary people met in their journey to become extraordinary and I'm here to tell you that you are not alone. For most of us would believe or even asked that why'd these things has to happen in your life here's the answer and welcome to the journey of Extraordinary.

The 8 extraordinary things;

• They'all got Broke Hard Time
  Literally all successful people started with literally no money at all and went broke to chase their dreams.  In Robert Kiyosaki's Book, Rich Dad Poor Dad, the number one lesson that Rich dad teaches was "work for free".
  
  Just like Steve Jobs was only a kid in his pair of jean working in his garage and build a humongous tech empire called Apple.inc. And in his biography he claimed that he never worked for money.
  
  If you're working for money you'll ending up chasing it like the song you heard when you was a child, round and round like "Ring around the Rosie, and get nothing but a pocket full of posies".

• Got themselves kick off from the circle
  People left them not because they are crazy or insane or they are too proud to hangout but because the old friend circle are no longer suitable for them.
  
  In our journey to success always be ready to get lonely because we can't stick with the mediocre forever. They pull us down and criticize on your ideas. Success are really a myth to them.
  
  That's why most successful people ended up removing themselves from the old circle of friends(most of them are just left by their friends) and ended with a circle of successful people who are relevant to their thoughts and ideas of life.

• They creates a philosophy that supports their believes
  For most mediocre, they literally didn't know what are their life's agenda are not to say to figure their own philosophy. It happens when they are ready to leave their life as mediocre and starts working on their success. Hit hard by failure jaws then they realize what works for them in life.
  
  Brian Tracy: When he was a laborer, wandering job to job thinking of how to be like those successful and rich people that has been a myth to him suddenly realize that nobody is responsible for his life except himself.
  
  Then he decide to take charge for his life and start with the positive affirmation that says to himself everyday "I am Responsible" that literally works for everyone to improve their self-esteem. And the program is still studied by thousands of sales person in the industry.

• They Idolize and Admire Somebody
  If you want to be successful you have to idolize somebody. Admire somebody that's better than you in your industry or life so that you could put your heart to learn from them.
  
  Nick Vuijicic Idolize god for his love. Because of his love upon god he learns to love everyone on earth and see through all the imperfection in others daily life and becomes teaches people how to be unstoppable with the love of god.
  
  Brian Tracy todays super sales guru. When he just started out sales, he performed poorly and soon  he learn to admire people and the first person was one of the sales super star in his company when he first started sales. He learn from him and his sales career boom ever since.

• They started to study on their topic
  Successful people all understand and realize that what they had right now are always not enough for them to success or take them far enough towards their dreams. That's why they study hard on their topics from books, tapes and audio programs.They kept themselves upgraded all the time.
  
  One great example was; Brendon Burchard , He listens to Tony Robbins Audio Tapes every single day when he started his career as a motivational speaker. Reads one book a week, which equals to 54 books a year for 7 years non-stop and today he is one of New York Times best selling author for all of his books and people pay tens of thousands of dollar just to get advice from this motivation expert.

• They went insane with only a burning desire
  One of Les Browns favorite quote of all times. "You Gotta be Hungry!"
  All successful people started up with only nothing but a deep desire to be successful. They can be broke financially but mentally they have what it got for the journey and they are Hungry!!
  
  As for the mediocre they usually quit when they have empty stomach or no time for TV. (HAHAXD....No Joke! Testify and interview it yourself).

• They all have the same response to Failure
  "There has to be a way" Successful people some how has developed a deep faith in believing that there has to be a way to solve things out. And its quite true.
  
  Take thousands of human history and there has to be somebody that succeed in chaos, wars, political issues, losing their spouse or love ones, hungry stomach and even without TVs. It is our actions to choose and stand upon circumstances that makes us mature.

• Everybody stops complaining
  One thing I love the most when having dinner with successful people is they stop complaining instead they express gratitude for all the adversity that happens in their life. Gratitude is one of the most powerful weapon for extraordinary people.
  
  "It is when We let go of our Pride and Learn to Appreciate the Adversities in our life, We learned Lessons that brings wealth to us."
  
  Be thankful for all the failure you may encounter today. Even you may not have any money at all this moment but still be thankful of the life you have, the heartbeat, fresh air and sun shine.

That's all for today, see you at the Top!
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                                     Fight Poverty Don't Opt into it

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Fight Poverty don’t Opt into it

Poverty is one of the biggest issues and also fear most people face today in our society. And most economists has concluded that poverty in today’s life is no longer the ones who have no food and shelter but had move to the mediocre who work a job and spent all their salary by the end of the money without any saving.

Almost like stumbling block for most people to block them from looking at the end of their career days. Poverty and fear are cousins both of them never existed in real facts but why have they taken so much credit in our career path?

How powerful is Poverty?

When you’re afraid of poverty you’re afraid of literally everything include trying new experience like eating healthy because you believe its going to cost you more (which actually don’t),you’re afraid of going out cost you’re worried of travelling fees (which leads you to depression), and you’ll start making history bills for excuse (which you starts to blame your spouse or your spouse things you shouldn't have spent on) and last of all you will went insane about everything that breaks the hearts of your love ones and lock down in your house alone scaring from depression.

What I want to tell you here is that fear and poverty are both nothing but bad management of our mind and its totally our choice to take charge and reclaim your agenda today and trust me whether you’re a politician, businessman or even a co-worker, poverty has and will always be in the way of success its whether you choose to embrace and chase it out of your life or keep letting it to haunt your life in the mystery dark path of your life.

Most people wouldn't even understand that the truth behind the story why they falls into poverty. Mostly because they are just too afraid of it that they don’t even dare to take the time to understands it. That allows poverty to take its advantage to hide in the shadow of fear and haunt the victim until they falls into the category. Misleading its victim towards wrong decisions instead chasing for their dreams and passion, poverty and fears stunts the act on of taking risk and play safe like a cowardly ostrich 

Many motivational speakers have proven the funny part of getting from poverty to riches is when they realize poverty is not the end of their life.

Take the example Anthony Robbins also known as Tony Robbins, one of the greatest motivational leader was told that when he was facing poverty in the rock bottom of his life bought a meal for a kid that dated his mother which the money he had and broke the chain with poverty from the act and sky rocket his career in his interview with Brendon Burchard for his new book MONEY: master the game.

All Tony did was just a touch and taste of poverty’s biggest fear…SPENDING UNSELFISHLY….
Of course you don’t need to go out and buy some kid and their mom with all your money like what Tony did.

You are always in responsible of your own life and everything you do in life is nothing but a reflection of your inner world. If you have a haunted inner world you shall live in a haunted world it is. If you’re in this situation of poverty all it takes is just a simple way to get out of it….
Face it like facing a fierce beast that wreaks your life face to face and fight it with your bare fist like a warrior that believes in their true strength….

Your actions are your fist, it determines how strong you hit the beast...

If you are a politician struggling go and ran the campaign that you fear of doing it for so long that haunts you even if you might got jailed just like Nelson Mandela. If you’re a worker that wants to starts your own business career life go and freaking starts a business today even you know you might fails and survive on cheap burritos. Or even you’re just a kid with an idea like Steve Jobs that has an idea that’s going to change the world when he starts Apple Inc.

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Its Time for a Breakthrough

Its time for a breakthrough! First of all congratulation if you’re spending your time to read this blog which is going to accelerate your life for a breakthrough. A lot of people believe that in the economy these days we need a lot of money to make a change in our life or you've to look extraordinary.

Sadly they are right because what they believe what they'll get. But here's a good news for you, You can either decide to be like those crooked potato couch just sitting there and complain do something out of your life today that going to bring a breakthrough out of the old rut but first before you could decide what kind of life you deserve to be live I’m gonna tell you what I believe here;

1. God made us all beautiful, unique and magnificent.

2. As long you’re passionate to make a change in your life there’s always a way.

3. Believe in yourself that you could solve things out.

And these are the thinking’s that kept me alive and happy even in my toughest time of my life business or marriage and even parenthood (now).

Here are some things you could do today to bring your life forward even if you don’t have any money.

•  Get connected

Thanks to the modern technology we have which is the Internet we are now able to connect with the world anytime of the day through social network and media and what I meant by that is not browsing all day on the internet liking pages and gossiping comments for the next 5-6 hours and woke up unconsciously and say “what did I just done?”…. HAHA.


Many did that I Know and it used to happen to me too so please be aware. So let’s get back to the main point. So I think since we can connect to the social media and networks like facebook and twitter take it as an opportunity to increase your circle and get updated.


Seek new friends and see what people are doing lately and what the latest trend is. And I’ve found that to be pretty useful especially when you don’t have any friends around you and it’s kind of weird for you to walk out to the street and pick on someone to talk with. (You’ll get what I mean)..


And the best part is it solved the “What If I don’t get well with people?” fear that most people has in speaking public. Just 1-2 hours a day. And if you want to get ahead more you can even go face cam with your friends of that circle (provided that you already know the person and has been chatting for some time).


So go ahead to and spends 1-2 hours a day to increase your social circle and get yourself updated before talking to the right person.

•  Income source

Income source and why does it relate to your life?

Most people would argue that money doesn't buy you happiness. Well they’re right (50%), some time you do need money so sustain a breakthrough. But that’s not the point. The reason I didn't mention income or money instead of the word Income source is because I want you to understand that action is the things that going to give you joy money are just bonus throughout the journey for newbie’s who are trying to start their life as an adult especially.

Please don’t go and work a job just because you think and believe you’ll be much happier with the salary and time you spend on it instead of wandering around. That’s not true at all.

I remembered in my first job as a promoter in one of the local shoe store when I was 16-17 years old paid me for 1k bucks a month and It wasn’t really happier than the first business I involve in selling soap bar that only made 50 bucks…

And people used to think I’m not being logic but human are emotional animal. God made us feel our life not just to live by needs but wants at the same time.

A pay from a job is what I need but running a business is what I want. And I believe what will truly makes you success in life is by doing things that you want and love and yet turn it into a paying career.

That’s why you are responsible to determine what you want to do in your life this moment and make a career out of it even if it doesn’t pay well from the beginning.

• . Exercise

BAM!! (My favorite). Exercise! The most easy and accessible thing you could do anytime of the day. And the best part is its Free. All you need to do is get that lazy butt off that sticky chair and start exercise.

Either is just doing 50 push-ups or going for a jog. Do something that’s brings sweat and awaken the muscles from last night’s rest. If you want a breakthrough you're going to need to feel that Heart beat and be alive at every moment of the day.

We all know that nothing beats depression and anxiety better than sweats and a whole bunch of heart beats but we’re just aren't doing it.

The benefits of exercise have been proven for centuries against anxiety and depression.

Exercise in the morning allows you to have better metabolism and blood flow which allow your body to have higher oxygen levels in each and every cell that going to makes you energetic and happy throughout the entire day.

Almost all successful people do their morning exercise as a daily routine. All it takes is just 30 minute a day to enjoy a great dose of endorphin serve from your brain to make you feel happy for the entire day.

•  Have some time for yourself

Have some time for yourself today and adopt a new Hobby in your life that brings you forward. Do some yoga, meditate or read some books on your career.

Do something that increases your believe and self-worth.

Don’t spend time watching TV episodes, instead make it a substitute to go on youtube and look for something you could learn from yoga to workouts and even culinary like cooking and baking.

There has to be something you could learn from.( And the best part is its free…XD)

•  Pen and paper your life

Last of all, one of the greatest thing I’ve practice in life is to write down what I wanted in life to be every day. For most people instead of writing down what had already happen into the diary, try and do it in a different way by deciding what you want your life to be of today. Always remember that if you let others to create your life it will always be the size of your feet.(don’t let that happen)

Decide today that you’re going to create your own life. Psychology has proven that when you write things down it allows your brain to physicalize words into something that’s tangible which allows you to create it into your world by 2000% which is 20 times more possible.

And here’s how you do it, woke up every morning after you had your breakfast and morning exercise where you feel all charged up before your work sit down with pen and a piece of paper

and write down who you want to be today. If u need to go to work and doesn’t have any time for that then do it at night after your dinner take an hour or two and just novel what tomorrow going to be like for you. It’s your life so stop hesitating today and start creating your life.

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