Real Success

"Heart are made of flesh not stones nor gold or silver"

Consistent Achiever is not a myth and it only comes with inconsistent failure.

My fellow friends, if today you accidentally fell off the wagon of life, do not be afraid or worry about because these are all what we need to go through in order for us to become a consistent achiever.

Yes Life is short but do not forget to look back to the joys and precious hardship from the journey for it is these struggle that brought us a better life instead of a bitter life....

In the Journey to success most people fell into devil's trap card and chose wealth instead of what precious like our love one and the health that kept us alive...

They forgets the ones who are most important to them..

• Parents who left their lad with someone unknown that not even care about...

• Husbands that ignore their wives feeling that were set up to chase after cold wealth...

• Couples who divorce because of financial issues 

• Son and daughters who left their parents years with misses and bitter tears..

They make us forget our true nature of what success really means for...
Not the wealth that pleasure us but instead our ability and willingness to strive to serve others...

At the end of their day, it will be their so call success be given up when they are regret and return to their love ones but how many are still there?
Have we not seen enough tragedies that how devil repays us with these scenes?

• Unforgiveness of child that parents never able to repay for their terrible childhood
• Wives we that ran off and chased for true love..
• Couples who still love each other but unable to be together for pride sake
• Son and daughter who are too late to be filial for their old folks

Look at all these tears have they nor show you enough?

If we are no longer be able to serve them and the world  we all live in what value is still there in those so call success?

What value do we still have in these ability?
Perhaps this what lonely riches says,

"I am are so poor that I have nothing left but money."

Is this still a compliment to you now?

Perhaps it is time for us to recall what are the true meaning of success..

Not the ones that marketing guru missed use the "Law of Association and taught us" to leave our love one and strive out with a palm of cold sweats and wealth but instead a success that has meaning in it...

• A success that allows us to pay for the warm support and care for the one who stands with us...
• A success that we are thankful for the struggle we face..
• A success that are shared with not controlled with power...
• A success that allows us to serve the world we care...
• A success that allows us to love once more...
• A success that we are willing to work for free...
• A success that brings us back all the Thank You's and I Love You's

"Because in Real Success its the "You's" that we care not "ME's""

I know you have a better way to express success and care because this how we are created ever since Adam was with Eve and Eve as a helper of Adam....

Last of all, perhaps some will still argue that this kind of success are Impossible but I say aren't humans are made to convert Impossible into Possibles...

"What your mind can Conceive and Believe it is Possible and Achievable..."

Also read: Forgiving
              Inspirational Success
                  Critical success Factor 
                  Delayed Gratification
                                                       For Better Success!

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Inspirational thoughts

Inspirational thoughts is one great way to enhance our life further. Since what happens in present is a reflection of our inner world. Inspirational thoughts plays a powerful role in our journey to success.

Months ago in my journey to success i am always trouble with why most people cannot seems to arrange their thought and behavior in order for them to succeed.

Then i got a powerful revelation that hit on my mind.

In order for us to inspire others we need to inspires ourselves first.All it takes is just inspirational thoughts....

Here a Story on Inspirational thoughts

In our everyday life, when we are hit down by the circumstances in our life, did we actually gaze at what have it taught us in life.

I believe most details and circumstances are here send by our god as a blessing and a teacher to teach us something. And beauty always comes out when we paused and gazed in it. Just like lifting weights, have you all ever paused and gazed to the weight you carry and discover the smaller weight actually has a bigger than the bigger weight. I did.

One day after my training at the living room as I lay sitting on the ground completely exhausted, sweating so I paused and gazed at the weight and I discovered why does the smaller weight has a bigger hole when they are actually on the same bar. 

So I quickly measure it and a powerful revelation hit on me and all of the sudden the way I viewed every challenges I face upon my life changed. In Our life, everyone has problems in their life rich or poor, good or bad, positive or negative which is represented by the hole of the weight.

Negative people (mentally poor) are like the smaller weight. Their thoughts are always demotivating. They always believes that their hole is bigger so instead of focusing on the weight the focus on the hole. 

They believe their spouse is a problem when they actually they are viewing their spouse as a problem then it goes to their parents, kids, neighbourhood, and even their pet. Until pain hit their muscle they decide to carry a smaller weight and as their muscle goes weaker in the end they can't even carry their self ended up descending in the darkness of life.

Here's how Inspirational thoughts Rocks

On the other hand, positive people (mentally rich) focuses on the bigger weight not because they are a 100x smarter or stronger at the beginning but discovered the hole of all the weight are never different yet they are all the same. 

And that my friend is inspiring. Inspires yourself to go for higher level instead of playing safe is part of inspirational thoughts. So they focus on carrying the heavier weight. Inspirational thoughts allows you to strives and take charged of their life instead of make blah blame and little excuses. They believe that bigger weight better muscles.

Pain can also hit you too but joy from the inspiration you had overcomes it when they saw the joyous expression from their spouse they carry, their kids, parents, and neighborhood. And now you're even inspiring others. Sooner or later you will have the ability to take fully charge and engaged into the world they dreamed of. 

If we can decide to simply paused and gazed at the challenges of our life and see our self as the ones carrying the heavier weight instead a bigger hole we can easily go through every circumstances in our lives and live a freer and more fulfilled life. This is what inspirational thoughts gets you. It Inspires you and it inspire everyone around you. Change your thoughts change your world.

For More Inspiration read: Inspirational success

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Inspirational Success

Hey guys, hope you enjoy my past blog post, and today I'm going to share about something that are only learn out of experience. Lets talk about Inspirational success. The reason why most Top leaders reads books and listen audio tapes is that we are trying absorb the experience we learned along the way and inspires other by applying it in our daily life and teach it to others. There's too little time for us to test everything. And every book you could absorb at least 20 years of experience all it take is only a week or two for you to digest it.

Inspirational success is the journey of gaining success by inspiring success. Inspirational success is a long way to learn but I tried to extract the best out of it so that you wouldn't fall asleep listening to long bored stories. In fact if you're a leader in the market inspirational success could not simply be written or describe in term because experience is alive like a story. It brings images to your brain and it works most of the time because if its an experience you're not a genie pig any more like most terms that you read on books and required time to test it.

Inspirational Success makes your Journey Exciting

How does inspirational success makes your journey exciting? Inspiring Success is one of the greatest way to take a leap in your journey to success..

Every single leader in the industry believe that they are never too great to stand alone and outsmart everyone.

Great leaders always finds a way to do things different than mediocre that criticizes others success. They go the opposite way and that is to inspire others to join their journey.
Instead of getting to success alone they bring others with them.

They make the journey exciting. That's why they love to inspire others to success.
success is not to gain its what you become when striving for it..
When you allow yourself to inspire others to success you attract success. 

Nobody wants to Lead in Reality they Learn to Lead

When I first started my first business, I was good at selling things but one side-effect about selling things alone is that you get a lot of sales at the first few months and eventually you'll realize you'll run out of sales because every single one of us has limited contacts.

That's why most people went on recruiting after a while. And as a newbie i didn't realize that sales and recruitment can be related together one of the reason is because I've phobia when i wanted to ask others to join me because I do not know how to lead a person and 2nd point is we all afraid to take the responsibility to lead others. So I went and study on leadership programs and books and audio tapes.

        *Note;

From my experience ask any average sales person or look at their approach most of them will only ask the person to buy not much will ask the customer to join the company. The reason is very simple, 

"Leadership requires Responsibility to yourself and the person you're leading."

Leaders Inspire Others to Join with Action not their Lips 

Then I started to recruit and i realize that recruiting is actually very easy since you are already a professional in what you are selling, People found it impressive when you show them how to sell things to their contacts and make money without they even trying to influence others. Sooner and later again I got into another trouble.

Surprisingly, it only take showing what you're good at to inspire others. It turns out that recruiting is actually more easier and fun than selling because I realize that most people who did buy anything from you actually are more willing spend their time following you than just having the product you influence them to buy.

People Business Never Dries Up

Yes of course i had sales but the problem is everyone is waiting for me to help them to sell their products in hand that I actually started to lost sales. So I made a decision that changed my sales career forever. When i was at the next appointment with one of my guy I told him that I was going to be late and I ask him to do the presentation first and the guy was actually panic so I told him the procedure and he actually did the presentation as how i did it.

Cut the story short when I arrive all I need to do is just collect the amount of money i needed and gave the commission to the person. Out of my amaze, teaching and letting person to do sales not only allows them to grow better yet you inspire to try and become better.

That discoveries boom my business. Then I went on doing the same thing again and again as soon as I realize they don't need me to be around any more. And all I need to do simply run a function program once a week to gather all the leaders and keep them update.

The Magic of Inspirational Success

The magic about Inspiring success is it allows yourself to learn more sporadically...

Great leaders learn never because of the wealth goal they wanted to achieve and that why most of them were broke at the beginning.

In the journey I learned from other great leaders too. I read their books and listen to audio tapes. The wonderful part of learning is that it allow you to inspire you leaders even more when you teaches them skills and ideas that you newly learn. Not only your market value increases so as theirs. That s why company will spent a lot of money for CEOs and market directors. Inspiration makes sales sky rocket.

Inspirational success comes from Learning 

You can't inspire anyone if you stop learning to inspire. Inspiring leaders learn because they are passionate about inspiring others to succeed from what they learn. They never spend their time on the couch with a pack of potato chip in front of the TV. For many of you that realize why won't people follow you is actually because you didn't spend your time learning new things that inspire others.

Most leaders falls in the category of false leading by hyping things up and boasting. They tried to inspire others by telling false truth about how great they are but when they are in action things just didn't turn out as it should be. This is a bad habit in the journey because when the experience you share is not practical or realistic people will blame you and hurt them as well because it takes a lot of trust to allow the person follow a leader.

For more Inspiration please read: Inspirational Thoughts 

Also read: Its time for a Breakthrough 
                 5 Habits that Wreak Your Day and or even your Life

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Delayed Gratification

Hey guys, we're on a big topic today. This is going to change your life forever. How about that as a promise...=)

Today we're talking about delaying gratification. Most people heard the term but how many of us have really understand it deeply...

Let me share a story before we start the journey....

What happens when delayed Gratification goes wrong!

A 500 pound lady that tries to loss weight, went for a jog in the park. She jog and she jog until she sweats her shirts and her pants. 

Went home and tell her bacon and cheese, she ain't having it today. In her lunch time she had veges instead of meat and dinner she ate a little oatmeal and some bread. 

And as soon as she finished her routine she says, its time for reward, she talks to her ice-cream how tough her journey today and writes her diary with a bag of potato chips on her couch in front of her TV.  

Here's a brief understanding on Delayed Gratification

Delayed Gratification A.K.A Deferred or Postpone Gratification.

Our Ability to resist the temptation for an immediate reward.

Delayed gratification is art that all successful leader don't really talk about these days anymore,

I'm not sure about why is this topic not really emphasize but when i go to the book store to get a book of the topic they found me a book on delayed ejaculation?..hahaxD

That's why I've decided to teach it here.

I believes the reason why delayed gratification has not been emphasize in these days is because people find strategy learning to success more important that psychology needed to success but kept in mind that strategies may advance your career but it is always our psychology that gonna bring us through the journey. 

Lets skip all the chatting here and let me introduce you to 5 simple ideas to help you master the Art of Delayed Gratification now

Here's 5 ideas to help you Master Delayed Gratification;

It Requires a Long-term Goal.

Guess what they 500 pounds lady ended up. She'll kept repeating the same rut until she learns the lesson and sees whats wrong or worst she may never get out of the rut. 

In our journey to success, mastering this art allows us to take a leap instead of climbing the stair like most people that struggles. When we have a long-term goal we are more conscious of what are the desserts and which are the main course in the journey.

Doesn't Mean "HARD" all the time.

Seeing everything as a difficulty is only bad management of our mind. How hard is it to eat healthy when a bowl oatmeal cost you less than bacon and cheese. Easier to prepare and cleans up excessive waste in our body. 

The fact is we all didn't see that "It feels harder right after we receive our immediate reward". Ask anyone on the journey, and even yourself how many times have you not feel guilty after you accept the little reward and given on all your major goals.

 How many prayers do we have to submit from feeling tempted by devils trap in through out the journey. It all leads to whether have we practice the art of Delayed Gratification.

Recommended: 5 Habits that Wreak your day or even Your Life

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Don't Get Overwhelmed  ! 

STRESSED = DESSERTS, never lets it catch ya. Most people give up when things getting to all stressed up. When the result comes slow or the missed a series of episode of this and that on TV or hit down by a rejection. Save up appetite for the main course. 

Kept in mind that, God designed it to be like this so that we are prepared for the great things he sets in for us. Just like the lottery winners always lost all the money.

Everyone gets overwhelmed when they starts up the journey don't be surprise. Learn how to manage it instead. Don't be like the lady with the ice-cream. Be like the lady that you dreamed of.

Recommended reading: Anxiety Management in the Journey of Success.

Make Everything Simple

I'm not telling you to do simply do it. The best way to master the art of delayed gratification is to achieve your dreams task by task, Just like your on your road 600 KM to reach.

How are you going to arrange it? You stops every 100-200 KM. Don't take it at once, You will die. Even if you made it your car will die. HAHA..XD..funny but no joke... 

Most mediocre do the same thing so that they looked productive actually they are not. They try to learn and do everything at the same time and they end achieve nothing at all. Successful people only do very few task yet they manage to master everything in their journey.

Expect Much More Than What You Pay

Delayed Gratification also means expect much more than what you pay. Do not let yourself to fall for the little goodies until you receive what you deserve for in the journey. 

Ask yourself how many times have you regrets after you realize why you didn't strive hard in the past when you should have. Successful people are very good at seeing what their effort pays when mediocre will just settle when they get a hold or even lesser on the effort they pay. 

This is depressing because if you worth a million and settle down for 500 K you'll ended up losing the 500 K you deserve. And the worst part they falls into the pit of comfort zone and did not re-bounce until they spent every single penny.

Recommended : Its Time for a Breakthrough

To END the story here, delayed gratification is an art that every successful entrepreneur ..
Take it as a challenge to master it today..

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5 Habits that Wreak Your Day and or even your Life

Humans are animals of habits. It is only when we decide to rehabilitate ourselves towards success that’s going to bring us success. Never the lottery or the perfection of live that most ignorance believes and awaits.

Here are 5 habits that mislead most people into misery and poverty;

• Focus too much on associating with common topic

If your dream is to become successful and extraordinary in your career, the number one thing you should stop right now is to disassociate yourself from common topics like the news, the traffic and political problems(except you’re a politician). Too much of these common topic may be easier for you to associate with the people around you which most people may say that’s what they need to talk about to get into the circle. Well they may be right, but all they’ll get into is a bunch of turkey circle where they “quable” the whole day and get a worm by the end of the day with other turkeys instead of hunting like an eagle and flourish on from their prey where they should be doing.

Practice a new way of communication where most successful people do. When most people stumble your ear political issues give your praise on what’s good instead even you need to pay tax but at least be happy that the currency is good. Even the news says the economy is bad but be glad that more people are looking for more business opportunity which is going to bring you more customer and partners in your business. Always remember that it is ours mind that is going to turn poverty into riches never the politics nor the economy of course they are all advantages we could leverage in the long run.

• Poison or distracted by media

Ever wonder why is it so much information pop up of nowhere of your brain that is completely not related when every time you’re focusing on important projects? Well here’s why, your brain is poisoned by the media that you see each day. Just like Kentucky pop up when you’re trying so hard to lost weight. Our eyes and ears are two of the most important sense of all because whatever we see or hear the information will be stored in the brain for use of long term. Take an example If u watch TV for 2 hours a day and seen 4 times of Kentucky advertisement a day you end up having Kentucky every week or even day depends on how much you’re influence. Good in good out, garbage in garbage out.

That doesn't mean you have to lock yourself away from the media. I think you’ll probably go crazy if you’re asked to leave it for just a day. Here’s an advice, be “choosy”. The reason why many people are easily infected by the media is because they are no consciously creating their world instead they let others to do it just like the Kentucky advertisement. Always keep in mind that “when you let others to create your life it will always be the size of your footstep”. Decide today to choose what’s going to be in your world; is it Kentucky or success? Is it poverty or rich? Make more choices and sooner or later you’ll see that living is a choice.

• Killer breakfast

Nothing wreaks your day easier than an unhealthy breakfast. It kills your brain cell it weakens your muscles and drives you insane. American or Malaysian or anything other country, there’s always bad breakfast. Bacon and cheese or Meaty and oily food or fast food or is it coconut rice with spicy chili or curry especially in Malaysia? If you want to be successful eat a healthy breakfast and take good care of yourself, yes now and if possible change your whole diet.

You are responsible for your life and the temple god blessed you.  Start your day and have a healthy bowl of salad instead or have some oatmeal or even eggs in the morning. Drink plenty of water instead of coffee and flush out all those toxic. If you really need caffeine make healthy from teas like green tea. Alkalize your body today and you’ll love your life for the next 30 to 50 years because of what you've decided to do today.

• Unlimited Snooze

We all know how to set alarm and some people sets 10 or even 50 alarms but yet they will have 10 and 50 of snooze. How insane is that to wake up 10 and 50 times just to wake up and re-snooze the alarm clock or your smart phones. Its going to makes you more tired than any other workout.

Practice today to wake up immediately! Right after you are conscious with the first sound of the alarm. If you really can’t pull your butt off here’s a great way roll yourself off the bed. Force yourself if it has to be done to stop snooze the alarm or even keep hearing the alarm until you’re so frustrated that you decide to wake up.

• Starting the day without a Warm Up

Most people are likely to endure those lazy ass and bones that are not awaken from last night’s rest. Take 30 minutes every morning to warm up yourself. Kick that lazy butt out of that chair and do some squat instead and pull those lazy bones to work. Do some Bur-pees or keep it easy just take a short walk around the house and get some sweat going before you took your bath every day. Be active to stay productive. You might even take it as an investment. Investment 30 minutes and you’ll get a whole day of endorphin that makes you happy and exciting.

See also: Healthy Habits Happy Child

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